The Miracle of Diplomacy - #120
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Welcome Back! Today, we'll be looking at the Gospel of Matthew to see how Jesus used diplomacy to avoid offending others and when He didn’t.
So let’s get started.
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Matthew 17:24–27
After they had arrived in Capernaum, the collectors of the two-drachma tax came to Peter and asked, “Does your Teacher pay the two drachmas?” “Yes,” he answered. When Peter entered the house, Jesus preempted him. “What do you think, Simon?” He asked. “From whom do the kings of the earth collect customs and taxes: from their own sons, or from others?” “From others,” Peter answered. “Then the sons are exempt,” Jesus declared. “But so that we may not offend them, go to the sea, cast a hook, and take the first fish you catch. When you open its mouth, you will find a four-drachma coin. Take it and give it to them for My tax and yours.”
My Thoughts
Did you catch it? Once again the lesson is buried under a miracle. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t mind being told to catch a fish and find enough money in its mouth to pay my taxes. That would be awesome! But there’s a deeper lesson here. One that is important for disciple-makers and anyone else that would like to preserve peace in relationships. It's the miracle of diplomacy. Jesus’ question to Peter makes it clear that the tax collectors were not doing what was fair or maybe even legal in a normal society. Of course you don’t tax your own family. This is why the Jews hated the tax collectors. They were “traitors” taxing their own for the Romans and getting their cut on the side.
Now Jesus could have righteously responded in several ways. He could refuse to pay the tax. He could rally a protest against the government demanding His rights. He could have called down hail, fire, and brimstone on these greedy tax collectors. But instead, He chooses a path that preserves peace and teaches a profound lesson in diplomacy. Jesus instructs Peter to pay the tax, not because it’s just or owed, but to avoid unnecessary conflict and maintain a witness that prioritizes humility over confrontation.
But before we go off the deep end on the idea of diplomacy, let’s look at Jesus in some other circumstances. What about confronting the Pharisees? He called them names like Hypocrites, Blind guides, Fools, Serpents, Whitewashed tombs, etc… (Matthew 23:13-33) Whew! That’s not very diplomatic in my book. What about making a whip and cleaning out the temple of all the “concessions.” (John 2:13-16) Nope, not very diplomatic either.
So how did Jesus know when to turn on the diplomacy or not? The simple answer is the Father told Him (John 5:19). We also know that Jesus was knee deep in the Scriptures, full of the Spirit, and prayed up. And as disciples and disciple-makers, it would be wise for us to do the same.
My Story
I was being raked over the coals for a theological issue and it got down right ugly. The minor disagreement became a “Paul and Barnabas Event” and we had to part ways. I didn't fight back, no screaming and yelling, no backbiting, or sabotage. I simply took it on the chin and left. Later one of the men I had discipled went through the same thing for the same issue. Now I let the leaders have it with both barrels! I didn’t lose my composure but I was firm and more prophetic than I usually am. So what was the difference? Why in one situation I “took one for the team” and the other I “came off the top ropes?”
Two things come to mind. In the first situation it was a personal assault against me. I felt like maybe God was doing something like when David left Jerusalem and Shimei was hurling abuses and rocks at him. David trusted God with the circumstances and responded;
“Let him alone and let him curse, for the LORD has told him. Perhaps the LORD will look on my affliction and return good to me instead of his cursing this day.” (2 Samuel 16:11-12)
In the second situation with my friend I felt like it was my shepherding duty to fend off the attackers and defend my brother. I have a saying, “If you ever want to see a Shepherd go Prophet, mess with the sheep.”
The other reason was wisdom from the Word and Holy Spirit. I felt like I had a red light to defend myself and a green light to defend my friend. I’m sure this is how Jesus operated in every circumstance, receiving wisdom to do exactly the right thing.
Our Action Plan
Now it's time for application. Here’s some ideas;
Are you abiding in Christ enough to be guided by Him on when to be diplomatic or not?
Are you quick to engage or quick to run from conflict? What is Jesus telling you right now?
Discuss these questions with those you are discipling and find Scripture to guide the discussion.
In the end, Jesus shows us that diplomacy is a miracle worth learning, guided by the Father's wisdom. As disciples, let's stay rooted in Scripture and prayer to know when to speak up or hold our peace.